Financial Early Neutral Evaluation

Should YOU Make the First Move?

Often, people who know a divorce is coming ask me whether they should file first, or whether they should let their spouse file first.  My answer is “It depends.” If the divorce is non-contested, if you and your spouse get along well and you know with certainty that you will reach an amicable, peaceful agreement .. read more

The Role of Mediation in Minnesota Divorce

As I have written about in the past, mediation is an important component of the divorce process in Minnesota courts. There is also another process that is similar, but different. This process is known as “Early Neutral Evaluation.” What is the difference? In mediation, the role of the mediator is to help the parties reach .. read more

Do Divorce Attorneys Use Negotiating “Tricks”?

Do divorce attorneys use negotiating tricks?  Yes. Not all of them, but a lot of them. After all, they went to law school, they are attorneys, and they want to get the best deal for their client in any (legal) way they can. Many attorneys who use “positional bargaining” tactics use various “tricks” to try .. read more

How Does Divorce Mediation Work In Minnesota?

Mediation is a process in which the parties to a divorce and their attorneys meet with a neutral third party in an attempt to resolve their disagreements, without going to trial.  The neutral third party should be a trained mediator.  Usually she is a divorce attorney or other professional who has experience with divorces, along .. read more